Hey Sue! Do I ever know what you mean. I'm only at 5 years and I'm already wondering why the hell I got married. I hate it most of the time. I lived alone for years...do I ever miss it! Don't get me wrong I love my daughter and wouldn't trade the last 3 years with her but if she wasn't here I really don't know if I would be. I started taking vacations by myself last year...it's only a week but man what a difference it makes in my outlook on things. Other than that, I wish I knew how to find myself again too!! If you figure it out give me a shout! Until then stay strong.

I wish I had good advice for you, but being as single as can be, I really don't. Don't forget to do things you enjoy, even if it means doing them alone. That is something I know a lot of my married friends have started doing, and it has helped them. Keep that chin up and keep working on making you happier.